My first wife was a freak for public sex and would get weak fro cumming while we did it. I'm sure it's hard to fake being a freak or being into any particular kink. Just trying to give yall mongers a real perspective on fet and the community. Kinksters can sniff out those intentions pretty easily. Each have their own hitches though.ĭoublelist, like craigslist personals before it, is very hit or miss with either guys pretending to be girls (very rife in the w4 m section) or couples looking for a very particular third that, quite frankly, they ain't going to be finding on Doublelist ("50 yo couple with bbw looking for athletic, fit, HWP, male in their 20's nothing under 8 inches " and the like).įetlife is actually serious about what it is, so single guys going on there just tryna lay pipe likely are going to strike out. I think plenty of us would like to strike into some strange that ain't going to hit our wallet, so it's only natural to explore those avenues eventually (Fetlife, Adult Friend Finder, Doublelist, etc). I had a friend that got on fet just looking for sex without the kink part and he bombed. But back to the kink thing, you really have to be into kink in some form or another to find someone to play with on fet. You can find people to play with that are just on fet but not really in the community. A lot of gay and trans in the community as well.īack to fet. You will definitely see some 'out there' stuff in the community. I have known one provider that was in the community as well and the community is very sex worker friendly. It's literally a community for kink, not just sex or sexually related. They have an introductory munch that anyone can go to, but if you're not into kink and accepting of others kinks you are going to be out of place. The only real way is to be into what kinks they are into. Looking for just sex on fet is a long shot not to say it can't be done. So I'm a monger and in the kinky community as well. If not then I think you'll get nine experiences exactly like you've described. It's just a different game than just a dating site and you have to learn to play that game. I have never not once not gotten what I wanted out of a woman on FetLife. To be honest I'm not really into the pain thing either but shit, you tell me that I get to beat you with a flogger and then you'll suck my cock or fuck me or whatever I want to do? Seems like an easy trade-off to me. You also need to open your mind up a little bit about what you might have to do in order to get what you want. As someone who has been on FetLife since it's inception I can tell you that if you're not honest about what you want you'll never get it. The reason for that is that's on you if you had a boring time. The difference is passion, not "freaky" play. I've met girls on dating apps and through friends who make those 9 fet girls look like nuns. There are a lot of them with trauma and mental issues and that's how they try to take control of it and gain confidence and power. What they have to offer is their supposed freakiness. They talk a big game but don't back it up and are largely unattractive. In my experience those people are less sexual, in terms of penetrative sex, than normal girls. That all turns me off as does public play. There's a lot of emphasis on impact and such. A single guy looking for normal sex is not going to do well there.
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